Scripture 1 Corinthians 12:7
The particular way in which the Spirit is given to each person is for a good purpose.
Observation
Trust in God's gifts to you. They are given for a purpose.
Application
The question should not be "why hasn't God given me the gift of ...?". It should be "How do I place my God given gifts in his service?"
Prayer
Father, help me to recognise the gifts you have given me and use them for the purpose you intend.